Welcome to the Maileverse

Who We Are

Queer, AuDHD, cancer fighting, single parenting, cat herding, human system with an unhealthy dose of PTSD because I am an overachiever who loves collecting all the letters.

No, like, REALLY, even my cancer goes by an acronym (NET, for those who just need to know. Yes it is rare. And yes, the only reason you may have heard of it is because it is the same one that killed Steve Jobs).

Why We Write

I am not, nor do I claim to be an expert at anything. I am not a therapist, medical professional, or an attorney. I am just a fantastic collection of stardust doing my best in the world. Please do not take anything you read here as “capital T” truth. If you are in crisis, please reach out to your local emergency service.

This is my tiny little spot in the universe to post whatever catches my fancy. As such, these are my thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and current understanding as of the time I publish them. Feel free to embrace what resonates with you, and ignore the rest. I can’t make all of me happy all of the time, there is therefore ZERO chance that I will make the denizens of the internet happy all of the time.